Category Archives: Inspirational

Is it something I Said?

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Years ago Richard Pryor recorded an album “Is It Something I Said.”  The album cover is a classic and features  the comedian  tied to the stake  in front of a large  group of people dressed in hooded robes holding  flaming fire stakes. Very funny and very obvious.   Anger is an emotion we all experience.  An unpleasant emotion yet a necessary one to expel the poisons that can inflict the soul.    There are those who contain their anger as if it is something wrong in expessing it openly.   So much hidden anger.  As a cook I am aware that even a pot of food on simmer will eventually come to a boil.    But there are a lot of  flame throwers out there.   People  say things that are cloaked in thinly diguised rage.  The veiled compliment.  The query about your weight, height, sex, male friend or work life – with the added “You look tired. ” The poisonous fake concern.    I am lucky that there are people (and animals) in my life with healthy dispositions and a  sense of self.  It is important to surround oneself with TRUE people  who express themselves.   People  who are positive but  let you know where you stand  with them good or bad.  As humans we get on each others nerves but conflict is necessary.    Ultimately  true friends lift the spirits. Those who care ,whether close friends or business associates, offer more  with the candor in their everyday conversation than the curtain of a smile.

Still Here

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There are days when one needs inspiration. I think of Marvin Sapp’s “Praise Him in Advance.

Like everybody I think I let people turn me away from a primary mission, love of God, love of self, Love of my fellow human beings and animals.  I compare myself to others and then I remember Roxie and Jean Claude who have a sense of who they are in the world.  Sure they fight, I think mostly for fun but there is no question they are confident in who they are and their life purpose.  Cats are all that.

Welcome Back

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Roxie and Jean Claude have been at my house for all of one hour and as  of this minute Jean Claude is now locked in my garage.    I went in the garage to get a cat blanket to cover  new ottoman.   Didn’t see JC  follow me in but I guess it was just too much for his need to explore.  I did see Roxie try to follow me.  I stopped her!!  Jean Claude will just have to wait.

What Is It??

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There seems to be a lot of anger out there these days. What is it really?? What caused it?? Advertising? Public Relations or Fear. I suspect the later stirred by the former .    It takes real courage to live and let live. It takes courage to be sure of one’s place in the world regardless of circumstances or data or changing demographics or advertising. It used to be that advertising caused people to worry about the kind of car they drove, or what cereal to buy or rather a lipstick was pretty. Now advertising is being used to stir negative emotion.   We have to get back to a place of Courage and  Hope.

Roxie and the Roach – A Tale of Her-roism

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I pride myself on a clean and mostly odor free home  but  despite regular visits by Terminix  I admit to the occasional appearance of a fly or an insect. Yes folks this morning I saw a large roach crawling on my bedroom ceiling. I was not excited and not inclined to get out of bed either. Shortly after the siting however, Roxie jumped on my nightstand, actor – there it was–  the roach which Roxie quickly maneuvered to the floor and dispatched of in a playful fashion. Poor creature never had a chance. Roxie is one of my she-roes.  Had the pleasure yesterday of talking with another one of my,  a wonderful sister friend  who is also a work colleague as well.   Americans owe her (and her colleagues)  for leading the charge on numerous issues,  but this blog respects her anonymity and it’s not about work.  That said she and her husband  raised five foster children.   However, shortly after the last child  graduated high school they had to take in their four grandchildren who were living under rather severe circumstances.  My  friend admits the ups and downs of raising  young children once more sometimes gets to her.   Yet  she and her husband don’t want any publicity or extra attention.  Clearly the reward for her is in the gifts she provides.  Like Roxie,  she is the real deal.