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Right now KoKo the domestic shorthair and Jean Claude the black Bombay are at my house. They want to be rubbed and petted. Sometimes KoKo constantly.  Humans are like that as well.  Oprah, the mega mega media mogul and interviewer was asked what was common among the throngs of famous folks she interviewed “They all, after the interview she replied,”wanted to know if they did all right. ”   From Mother Theresa to President Obama, we all need know if we are “ok” and if we did “ok.”   The need  for validation is something we all share.  Certain political figures and entertainers need it  more than most but make no mistake – we all want it in some form.   The applause ,the  polling numbers , the Tony the Oscar, the Gold Medal- the job, the second date, the hello or the smile. We all seek the pat on the head, the OK that we are ok.  Actor George Saunders character in the the 1951 Classic, ” All About Eve” said “We are all born equipped with little horns – to announce our presence.”   As humans we want to know we are valued, admired.    Hatred in its shallow and most visceral form invalidates us with messages that we are  somehow not ok whether if it’s  because of the color of our skin or who we worship or who we love.

Recent events worldwide show us we must go back to the Source.  Hate invalidates us all – God loves us all the same.

 

Jean Claude and Koko

Jean Claude and Koko

King J.C.

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I’m from Cleveland.  Yeah, we lost LeBron but the Cavs won their first pre-season game last night.   There are still some folks some wondering whether it was a bad move or a good move.  Will LeBron (literally and figuratively) miss the ball??   King James, as he was known, has moved on.   His decision still a question mark, even  according to news reports  for himself.   I think what makes one true royalty, a person of real value to the world , is the ability to know one’s self.   I watched today as Jean Claude regal and royal  stood at the back porch door watching as my neighbor Bonnie’s dog “Six” carried on.  JC, who has been known to meow like a dog himself at times of crisis, was nonplussed.  He knows himself.  His kingdom is where he chooses.